3 Pieces of Advice To Better Yourself in 2023

Make the coming year your best year yet.


Terence Kong

a year ago | 2 min read

You may have lots of difficult times. However, do not forget the small achievements you attained along the way.

Chances are, you have achieved numerous resolutions from the previous year. Therefore, we should give ourselves a round of applause for what we have achieved despite the pandemic.

However, obviously, you may feel there are still many more you want to achieve. 2023 can be the year you achieve those personal goals and do even more than you did last year.

Here are several tips that will assist you in your self-improvement adventure.

1. Keep in mind the past lessons you learned

2022— and the years before it — provided you with numerous lessons to keep in mind as you grow older. Look back at the blunders and failures you have stumbled upon throughout the year. Reflect on what you have gathered from those missteps.

Perhaps you learned that you need to be more emotionally resilient when managing your investments. Maybe you found that you could have achieved more by being more skilful at time management.

Pause for a while to think carefully about the things that you discovered you could have done better. Then, list them down and store that list somewhere that you can remember so that when you want to revisit them, you know where to find the said list. It may help you be more likely not to repeat the same mistakes.

2. Put your goals where you can see them

One of the most effective ways to have your goals prepped and good to go is by writing them down. Write precisely what you aim to achieve by the end of 2023.

Formulate a blueprint for how you are going to accomplish that goal. Then, put together a series of small steps you will take to inch your way towards the path of being victorious in the battle for personal success.

The combination of owning a goal and formulating a plan will increase the odds of you being happy with how things went for you by New Year’s Eve.

3. Never let up on self-care

Looking after yourself means keeping your physical, emotional, mental and spiritual health taken care of. When every aspect of your health is in good shape, you will find it easier to keep the hard work going.

Hence, always remember to give yourself doses of self-care once when needed. Some good examples of self-care include:

  • Getting good-quality sleep
  • Exercising regularly
  • Consuming healthy foods and drinks

Always make time for things that ensure the preservation of your overall well-being. The better you feel, the better decisions you can make and the harder you will work to achieve what you so desire.


At the end of the day, self-improvement is all about you deciding you are prepared to do better. Once you believe you are good to go, you have to begin making the necessary decisions to become successful. When you make those decisions and remain determined, you will give yourself the best opportunity to make 2023 the best year yet.


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Terence Kong

A lifelong introvert, minimalist and nonconformist who writes about self-improvement, relationships, life and psychology.







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