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4 Types Of Men Women Can’t Resist

Knowing the things that attract women in men can free you from a lot of trouble chasing women and bumping into failure now and then.


Joshua Idegbere

4 months ago | 4 min read


Do you belong to any of these?

You can make yourself irresistible to ladies| PEXEL

Knowing the things that attract women in men can free you from a lot of trouble chasing women and bumping into failure now and then.

There's is a friend of mine who's currently on that failure rollercoaster ride. He has been trying to convince his crush, one after the other, to date him.

Unfortunately, he keeps getting rejected by each one of them in a row.


You won't believe it:

He lacks even the basic things that attract ladies to men.

Love doesn't just happen.

If you think someone will just love you from the blues, I can guarantee that they won't be your speck.

I have had several such experiences. They all ended in a breakup.

Here's the truth:

Even if we've never met, I know you will need to be more than you're now to attract the quality of women you're crushing on.

You inspire love to happen

You inspire love to happen

It took my girlfriend 5 months to finally accept to date me.

During that period she took her time lookout for some of the traits that make the type of men that women can't resist.

And when she was convinced, she gave me a yes.

I couldn't believe I just got a yes from the most beautiful lady I have set my eyes on!

Do ladies really find certain men irresistible?

The answer is yes.

Studies show that there are reasons women fall for certain guys.

And more than that, you too can become one of those men that ladies can't turn down.

By no means am I saying that as a man, you must have these qualities to appear attractive to a lady? Nor am I saying that every woman is going to want a man with the qualities that I describe below. But I’m saying that a lot of women do.

If you’re set, let’s consider them one after the other.

The intellectuals

Women find intelligent men more attractive.


An intelligent man has a strong micro-climate around him. He walks into the room, the bedroom with confidence, his presence is felt, he is a strong spirit with a deep mind. He leans by his woman and she wants his chemistry surrounding her.

An intelligent and loving man describes her body in a mature way, he calls out her body. How he talks about her breasts, behind, thighs, smile, eyes, and essence in such a sophisticated and studious way makes her blood boil.

She surrenders to him because of his intense love that is expressed in such an intelligent and creative way.¹

Did you notice how much Nairobi was attracted to the Professor in the movie Money Heist season 4?

She felt the professor had 'good genes', being intellectual and stuff.

And so she would not let go until the Professor agreed to her request to make love to her so she could carry a baby that will carry his unique gene.

The lesson

The more intellectuals you're, the more irresistible women will find you.

Intelligence is about being grown mentally, whether or not you have a University Degree, Master's or Ph.D.

It is about being wise, thinking higher thoughts, respecting all women, and elevating and valuing the one and only woman you love. ²

So work on that aspect of you.

The matured

To a lady, your level of maturity is as important as any other thing in the relationship.

Chances are high she will turn you down when she discovers you're still obsessed with sex and showing off your new clothes. That's what boys do. And ladies don't fall for boys.

Girls generally tend to get mature earlier than boys.

A lady, even at an early age, is quite futuristic. So they filter the guys on their radar for the ones who will take her seriously, guide her, and nurture her into the best she can be.

It takes maturity to nurture a lady.

And boys are too crazy about sex to have the time or mental stability to nurture dreams. That's why most ladies go for older and more mature men.

Another reason is stability. A woman might prefer dating an older man is because they know what they want and simply isn't looking for anything unstable.

The lesson

Maturity ranks among the topmost in women's bucket list in a life partner. If you want to be irresistible, you need to grow up and get mature.

The financially independent

Finance is a key aspect of a relationship.
It is so important that you can't undermine its role in ensuring the success of your relationship.

A man is a provider.

If you are not financially capable enough to take care of yourself, you will struggle to convince a lady that you can take care of her.


It takes money to take care of a lady.

You need money to service some needs in
your relationship.

You need to buy her gifts sometimes, surprise her on her birthday, take her out shopping once in a while. These are very important in a relationship. But then you need to have some money to get them done.

If not, chances are high it the relationship will experience some crises that may threaten its survival.

Financial hardship and instability can foster conflict and seriously impact the stability of a couple's relationship and their finances, especially when there are no rainy-day funds and little knowledge of where to turn for help.³

The lesson

Relationships need some financing. If you want to be irresistible, work on your finances.

The well-groomed

Women find well-groomed men more attractive, period. There are no endless debates, unsettled disputes, or doubts about unanimity.

Women like well-groomed men because they get to know that the man has invested the necessary time and effort, that he is interested in ensuring he looks presentable or at least nice and that he cares about how he is perceived by others. This is a turn-on for women.

A well-groomed man doesn’t just look clean and nice but also dresses well, attends to his hair, and has a pleasant influence on others.

A woman likes the company of men who appear to be classy, respectable and make her girlfriends a tad envious.⁴

The lesson

Looking good is a turn-on.

Women dislike men who don’t take care of themselves, who are shabby, dress poorly, and don’t have a sense of style.

But then you don’t need to spend a thousand bucks on a suit or fifty bucks every week at a salon. All you need to do is take care of his entire physical presence and that would influence how you come across - attractive and irresistible.


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Joshua Idegbere


I am Joshua Idegbere and this is my column. Stories with actionable tips to help you make the most of your life, career and relationships. Welcome!







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